Filipina Bar Girls

I hope I don't offend any military by saying this, but most military men are familiar with meeting ladies at the bar scene in their country. With that said, there needs to be a stigma clarified at Filipina Eyes. I do not discriminate against a lady because she works in a club. It seems hypocritical to say that it is ok for men to frequent the bars, but if a lady works there she is branded in some anti-social way.

I'm not saying I condone certain behaviors, I'm just saying that as long as it is legal, what a lady does to survive is not for me to judge.

It always fascinated me how a lady working in a bar is branded as being unfit for being a wife or mother. I'm not naive (spent 23 years in the military) and know that the bar scene can be conducive to certain behavior, but to judge all based on that scene is something I don't care to do. I'll give anyone the benefit of the doubt until proven otherwise.

I referenced the military above because of my 23 years of military experience and traveling the world. I'm far from a babe in the woods, but for whatever reason, I found some of the most honest and down to earth ladies are those who have to do what they have do to survive – including those who work in a club. I guess some believe if you meet a lady at a bar and have sex versus meeting a lady at a church or local event that ends up in bed, the bar acquaintance carries more dirty laundry. Yet I think there is less stigma associated with hard working ladies -- no games -- it is just what it is.

Keeping an open mind and getting to know someone for who they are is not a bad idea. In doing so, you may find that diamond in the rough and love may shine like never before.