Filipina Dating Myth

Filipina Dating Myth


One of the biggest problems with men searching for a Filipina Lady, is that many will categorize all ladies with the same characteristics. Not all Filipina ladies are sweet and shy, not all Filipina ladies have the same sexual appetite, not all Filipina ladies want to marry an older man, etc. However, goddess like myths have been perpetuated throughout the internet giving the impression that all Filipina ladies have these similar traits. When you think about it, this isn’t being fair to the lady.

No matter what country a lady is from, they all have their own individual traits that makes them who they are. Their desire is for a potential mate to get to know them for who they are without being stereotyped by expectations that they usually can’t live up to. Of course, that can be said of all genders from all countries, not just the ladies from the Philippines. Yet, for example, there are many men that believe that all Filipina ladies are docile and willing to concede who they are to a man’s preference. Not true. Some Filipina ladies can quickly put you in your place if you treat them any less than your equal.

In the Filipina dating world, it is best  not to take anything for granted. Get to know the person for whom they are, not who you think they should be. After all, you are not just looking for someone you can love, but also someone who can stand beside you as an individual that will love you as well for who you are

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Comments/Discussion

Angelicious

  • Posted on 12/19/2011 07:06 pm
yes.. i agree all Filippina have a different attitude,


ii_yam

  • Posted on 12/12/2011 09:01 pm
nice point of views :)


dynarose

  • Posted on 06/28/2011 12:11 am
loving someone is never been simple.. u may choose them with standards., beauty, intelligence, character, and social wellbeing.. however, in the end your standards will be useless if you love someone out of your criteria.. about setting criteria to follow but a manifestations of great reasons on why you exist and continue breathing...
it's not the kiss which will matter most but a relationship which can be proud of....


iwantbfbff

  • Posted on 05/26/2011 04:51 pm
when some people say filipinas are gold diggers, its not fair.. not all filipina that joins on dating site are scammers and liars.. actually, a lot of women in different nations and countries are actually greedy and tends to date men with money.. My american ex-bf told me that most of the white women would only date a rich man.. its just the perception that filipino women cuz they live in a poor country they are misinterpreted.. a woman with money who married a rich guy is NO bigdeal no matter what the age gap is.. but if a poor 22 yr old grl married a 35 yr old rich guy is commonly judged as gold digging. sadly, its the way how people think and react.


aien

  • Posted on 05/22/2011 08:49 am
Yes very well said...we are born with different individuality that makes us unique and beautiful.


Jenniferandrada

  • Posted on 04/27/2011 02:11 am
‎"♥ ♥ ♥"Don't love someone for their looks because looks can deceive. Don't go for wealth, even that fades away. Love someone who makes you smile, because only a smile makes a dark day seem bright."♥ ♥ ♥" ‎♥ ♥


aimeeh

  • Posted on 04/05/2011 11:02 am
not all filipina are they same.. we are all human beings but we have different types of attitude and long in our life..for me what ever and who ever come in my life as long he is the right one if God's will...but his not yet come..


pretchy_grace19

  • Posted on 03/25/2011 02:22 am
yes.. i agree all filippina hve a different attitude ... but all pnay hve a gold heart because if they love a person they express them hw much they love that man... and not for any reason ... and pnay does not a " gold digger"...


rowena17

  • Posted on 01/11/2011 01:24 am
when u r out there looking for that perfect person,keep this things in mind; people change no matter how hard they try not to.; as we grow older,we mature and with each new levelof maturity comes different ideas; different wants and needs; u have to find someone who will; grow old with you, laugh w/you and cry w/you.. REMEMBER that there is no such perfect person in this world ...BUT there will always be someone who will complete you..=) godbless every1..takecare


Theanne

  • Posted on 11/08/2010 10:13 am
it's kinda funny coz i've encountered a guy who asked me to marry him the moment we talked online...coz he said FILIPINAS are like that..they just like the money and the green card... then he started bribing me with money.... and that exact moment i explained to him that he cannot take in general that certain thing... coz it's pretty offending hearing that... but atleast i proved to him that i'm still a conservative lady in this fast changing world...


jhettamae

  • Posted on 08/12/2010 10:07 pm
as the BIBLE said... the steps of a good man is ordered by the Lord, for me, love can wait and God is love thats why il wait for His will to come for me and be my partner in life...Godbless


MarkusReborn

  • Posted on 07/26/2010 04:06 pm
This is the reason I wrote to my Filipina wife for nearly five years. I reasoned that if she was only wanting to come to the U.S. and wasn't really in love with me, then she wouldn't waste her time for five years. Again, I caution anyone involved in a pen pal or chat rooom/IM relationship to beware of those who claim love for you in a matter of a few short months.


esjbjl

  • Posted on 07/26/2010 03:34 pm
wow, I should have read up on all that stereotyping myths BEFORE I went and married my 1st filipina. I was naive; thot all filipinas make great wives and all filipinas make great nurses. Boy was I wrong. Mine, didnt even love me. Found out later, her mother just told her to 'go there with me so she could help them'.


MarkusReborn

  • Posted on 07/25/2010 11:05 pm
Excellent point, Aureacicilia. The importance of immediate family cannot be stressed enoght.


aureacicilia

  • Posted on 07/25/2010 12:04 am
In the Philippines, if a man wants to be taken seriously by a woman, he has to visit the latter's family and introduce himself formally to the parents of the girl. It is rather inappropriate to court a woman and formalize the relationship without informing the parents of the girl. It is said that in the Philippines, courting a Filipina means courting her family as well.


sexyrhons

  • Posted on 07/24/2010 02:27 am
...looking for frnd..


MarkusReborn

  • Posted on 07/21/2010 07:53 pm
There is also, for the most part, a difference between the ladies born and raised in the big cities and those raised in the province, a difference that is common to ANY culture or country. Get to know your prospective mate and where they stand on different issues. Absolutely do not assume anything!


Singleandlooking

  • Posted on 02/20/2010 10:20 pm
well said..


roseganda

  • Posted on 02/20/2010 03:17 am
nice article....another one plz :)