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Filipina Dating Myth

Filipina Dating Myth


One of the biggest problems with men searching for a Filipina Lady, is that many will categorize all ladies with the same characteristics. Not all Filipina ladies are sweet and shy, not all Filipina ladies have the same sexual appetite, not all Filipina ladies want to marry an older man, etc. However, goddess like myths have been perpetuated throughout the internet giving the impression that all Filipina ladies have these similar traits. When you think about it, this isn’t being fair to the lady.

No matter what country a lady is from, they all have their own individual traits that makes them who they are. Their desire is for a potential mate to get to know them for who they are without being stereotyped by expectations that they usually can’t live up to. Of course, that can be said of all genders from all countries, not just the ladies from the Philippines. Yet, for example, there are many men that believe that all Filipina ladies are docile and willing to concede who they are to a man’s preference. Not true. Some Filipina ladies can quickly put you in your place if you treat them any less than your equal.

In the Filipina dating world, it is best  not to take anything for granted. Get to know the person for whom they are, not who you think they should be. After all, you are not just looking for someone you can love, but also someone who can stand beside you as an individual that will love you as well for who you are


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Comments/Discussion


serlborj07

  • Posted on 08/13/2010 03:35 am
@jhettamae: i agree with u
@markus&esjbjl: love is still love from north to south pole, and u can find good and bad people everywhere...looks and sweet words can be deceiving...u just got the wrong girl, hope u won't take it generally, it will be unfair for truthful and honest filipinas who r here. just be cautious anyway

jhettamae

  • Posted on 08/12/2010 10:07 pm
as the BIBLE said... the steps of a good man is ordered by the Lord, for me, love can wait and God is love thats why il wait for His will to come for me and be my partner in life...Godbless

MarkusReborn Online now!

  • Posted on 07/26/2010 04:06 pm
This is the reason I wrote to my Filipina wife for nearly five years. I reasoned that if she was only wanting to come to the U.S. and wasn't really in love with me, then she wouldn't waste her time for five years. Again, I caution anyone involved in a pen pal or chat rooom/IM relationship to beware of those who claim love for you in a matter of a few short months.

esjbjl

  • Posted on 07/26/2010 03:34 pm
wow, I should have read up on all that stereotyping myths BEFORE I went and married my 1st filipina. I was naive; thot all filipinas make great wives and all filipinas make great nurses. Boy was I wrong. Mine, didnt even love me. Found out later, her mother just told her to 'go there with me so she could help them'.

MarkusReborn Online now!

  • Posted on 07/25/2010 11:05 pm
Excellent point, Aureacicilia. The importance of immediate family cannot be stressed enoght.

aureacicilia

  • Posted on 07/25/2010 12:04 am
In the Philippines, if a man wants to be taken seriously by a woman, he has to visit the latter's family and introduce himself formally to the parents of the girl. It is rather inappropriate to court a woman and formalize the relationship without informing the parents of the girl. It is said that in the Philippines, courting a Filipina means courting her family as well.

sexyrhons

  • Posted on 07/24/2010 02:27 am
...looking for frnd..

MarkusReborn Online now!

  • Posted on 07/21/2010 07:53 pm
There is also, for the most part, a difference between the ladies born and raised in the big cities and those raised in the province, a difference that is common to ANY culture or country. Get to know your prospective mate and where they stand on different issues. Absolutely do not assume anything!