The wedding vows say:

For richer, FOR POORER,
IN SICKNESS, and in health,
In good times and IN BAD,
For better or FOR WORSE

Makes you wonder if folks are seriously thinking about the vows when they make them. Sad that the American culture makes divorce so easy. That and a mentality of "me first" makes many think marrieage is a picnic or a fairy tale... it's not. It can be hard work and a major struggle sometimes. We need to stand by our mate when that happens.