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As the admin, I get to see the profiles of members from the back end of the site known as the Control Panel (an area that members do not have access to) The Control Panel gives me an overall view of all member’s profiles. While doing my daily maintenance of the site from the Control Panel, I will see a profile of a member who I think is just right for another member. However, I know he or she would not consider the one I think would be perfect for them based on their previous picks. Let me give you a scenario. Lets say the male member is Mr Chak. I seen Mr Chak’s history of the type of ladies he picks. In most cases the ladies are way too young and not mature enough, yet, Mr Chak keeps picking them. Mr Chak also complains about not being able to find love and wants to give up. Mr Chak is a super guy, a true gentleman, but not the partying type. In my mind, a classy, yet eloquent lady would be perfect for him. Yet, he never comes close to picking this type of lady. He picks ladies too young that doesn’t fit his personality. It always makes me wonder how Mr Chak sees himself. I’m prohibited from playing matchmaker if I want to keep my site free. I can only provide a place for people to meet and it is up to members to find their own match. However, that doesn’t mean that members can’t play matchmaker and help each other out. If a man or woman contacts you that isn’t your type, maybe the best thing you can do is befriend the member and help him or her find the right match for them. I must admit, I think men need more help than ladies with a matchmaker. If you are not having any luck finding love, maybe you need to first take a look at yourself. Finding the person meant for you means that you have to be contacting members with similar attributes to have a chance at love. Yet many seem to keep picking someone who is the most unlikely match for their personality. When I say many, I must admit it is the guys who I find most puzzling when it comes to the type of ladies they pick. Many times I just don’t get it. What frustrates me the most is I will get emails daily from very lovely and attractive ladies asking how to find the right man. I will also get emails from men complaining they can’t find love. I can’t help to wonder why these men are not contacting the same ladies who daily ask me how to find a good man. Usually the guys that complain about not finding love are the same guys who seem to keep picking the same type of lady that would not give him a time a day unless he was throwing money at her. I will say it again, first you need to assess who you are if you want to find the right one for you. Otherwise, you will keep making unwise choices and keep wondering why you can’t find the love of your life. Subscribe to Filipina Dating Articles |
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