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Asian Message


Hardly a day doesn’t go by I don’t get at least one email from a member asking me why another member has not contacted them or stopped contacting them. This morning I had ten such emails.

To be blunt, I don’t know why a person would not contact you or would stop contacting you. What I usually do is check to make sure the member is still active. In the case of the ten emails I received this morning, all members who they wanted to know about were active and has visited the site within the past few days. For whatever reason, they decided not to respond to a member’s message.

I can guess why another member may not contact you or stop contacting you, but it would be just that –  a guess. In the case where you have been corresponding with another member and they stopped suddenly, more than likely the member is corresponding with several members and decided to limit who they wanted to correspond with. It could be they found the ONE and want to focus on that person only. For those who never respond at all to your initial message, they probably read your profile and wasn’t impressed or for whatever reason they were not attracted to your photo.

I get many emails from lady members asking me if this guy is real or not. I don’t have an answer but the guy is obviously  doing a poor job filling in their profile if it leaves a doubt in a lady’s mind if you are genuine or not.

I know it is hard to do, but if someone doesn’t respond to your message, don’t take it personally and move on. I can’t force another person to respond to your messages. I know it would be nice if they would respond and tell you that they are no longer interested or that they found someone else, but a lot of members choose to stop responding without any explanation.

I will close saying that moving on is your only solution. I have no clue why a person would stop corresponding with you nor am I going to send them an email asking them why.  It is not my place to do so. Besides, if the person decided to stop contacting you, they obviously were not the ONE meant for you. Keep searching until you do find the ONE who responds to your every need.

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Comments/Discussion

lovebeingsingle

  • Posted on 04/08/2011 03:00 am
Yes chief you are right, if they say hi then greet them.If the next day you see them online and you say hi and they did not respond then it's their lost not yours.

@goranbockman seeing our culture is not enough to know it.Better to experience the culture and know the people.Every person has different perspective about the Philippines, if you want to know our culture might as well check google.You can have wider view, because our culture is very rich.


mimiluds

  • Posted on 03/21/2011 11:50 am
You know, it hurts when someone just suddenly stop talking to you or replying on your messages. You'll be upset and your confidence in yourself goes down and you'll feel insecure....but just as the saying goes... LIFE GOES ON.... Its true that maybe he/she is not meant for you. So..... move on and start looking again.... LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL.....