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Ever once in a while I will get an email from a husband ticked off that his wife has an image/profile on my site. He is furious at me. Why me? It is his wife he should be upset at. Obviously, I have no idea when someone joins the site if they are married nor do I force anyone to join the site. She did so on her own free will. Yet, his anger and words are directed towards me as if his wife was innocent of any action on her own. I usually don’t reply. I simply delete the wife’s profile. The anger isn’t necessary and it is misplaced. It is up to the member to tell me if they want their account removed. I’m not a mind reader. If a married person wants to be a member of my site, I have no problem with it as long as they are up front with other members. We have had members who met on our site and still wanted to maintain their account to contribute to the site in any way they can. I appreciate them doing so. Recently I got an angry husband email and for whatever reason I decided to reply hoping I could reason with the guy. The email he sent was full of hate, swear words and anger. But I replied calmly telling the guy, “I have no problem canceling your wife’s membership, but she has to let me know she wants to cancel it. I had no idea she was married. What is her username?” I even congratulated him on his marriage. His reply was filled with even more hatred and swear words. I thought I would try one more time. “I did not force your wife to join our site. She did so on her own free will and she can cancel or quit at anytime. Just tell me her username and I will remove her profile.” His reply – more anger, swear words, etc. Even called me a pimp! For the first time I decided to reply in anger and block his email account after my reply. I told the guy in my last reply “maybe your wife joined our site looking for someone better than you”. I shouldn’t of, but I did. If you are an angry husband out there and your wife is a member of our site, you need to ask your wife why she joined the site, not me. All members join by signing up, providing a image, etc, without me telling them or forcing them to do so. It is up to them, not me, if they want to join or not. It is also up to them if they want to cancel. If you are angry at me, I wonder how delusional you may be when you can’t grasp the logic of your wife’s action in signing up on her own free will. Maybe all you have to do is to take a look at your own neurotic behavior to realize why she may of wanted to find someone else on an Asian dating site. OOPS! There goes my anger again! Cheers Webmaster p.s. This is not an invitation for married people to sign up and use deception on my site. In most cases, married people realize it is a waste of time to do so but for a few out there who do without being up front about being married, you are wrong. Maybe even sick. Subscribe to Filipina Dating Articles |
Angry Husband
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Comments/Discussion
SilverDimes
Your story here makes me think of a security guard I MUST work with. When I say MUST, that means that my job description usually involves his company, and when you spend an hour with someone 3 times a week, you seem to get into conversations.
Recently we had a discussion. Or at least, that's what I had intended. Instead of him giving me one, complete sentence asking me to do something, he volunteered too much information into trying to explain something that I felt that he didn't know what he was talking about, so as a result, it prompted me into ask him questions. He would give more information, I would ask more questions. Eventually, this snowballed into him finally telling me "I've had enough of you. Get out of my face and don't talk to me."
So the point I making here is, when you spoke of this angry husband you tried to reason with but failed, I thought of some guy at work.
Anyways. I hope to find a lucky lady one of these days. I will personally GUARANTEE you, that If I found out if my future wife was going on dating sites, I would make an attempt to have a discussion with her and not blame you for it. Not saying that I would treat my future wife in a way to motivate her into doing such a thing, but that's besides the point.
Chris.
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Herbyridesagain
I met a woman here last year, we chatted for several months and now we are married.
So its the luck of the draw at the end of the day, It is down to the individual not the site.
Fortunately I met a really genuine woman, She never asked for a peso or anything.
So Dan you did a wonderful thing creating this site! you made me a happy man again!!! thank you from the bottom of my heart...
TheForeigner1983
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