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Getting down on yourself or being depressed is natural as long as it isn’t chronic. I know every once in a while, I feel down from dealing with every day life. It usually isn’t any one thing, but a accumulation of things that makes feel blue: trying to solve a problem with the site, feeling sick, child not well in school, in pain, etc. If I had to only deal with one of those things, I probably would be feeling pretty chirpy. Those who are looking for love, have more than their share of the blues. It can actually be the only reason they are feeling blue while other things in their life is working out well. However, if you are looking for love and there are other problems you have to deal with, maybe this is not the time to be looking. When I say other problems, I’m not talking about the every day stuff, but problems that require a lot of your energy and time. A lot of people think finding love will solve serious problems, but usually that is not the case. Looking for love may be one of the most emotional adventures you will ever be on. For me, the only thing that came close to the emotional energy of finding love is when my first child was born and going through a divorce. In most cases, looking for love does not always go smooth. You are bound to run into a few road blocks and heartaches along the way. If you do find the one for you, there is still the road to travel from falling in love to marriage. It takes real conviction and energy to marry someone in another country. Both the lady and gentleman need to realize that nerves and emotional stress usually play a part in making your dreams come true. I can’t speak for everyone, but I know that the gap between falling in love and marriage takes more than love, but fighting for what you believe in. Eileen and I knew we loved each other, but there were times she needed to stay the course during her emotional upheavals that were not related to her feelings towards me and I also had my personal traumas that was not related to my feelings towards her. If we would of given in to those outside emotional events while courting, it would of overshadowed the love we found for each other. Instead, we fought for what we believed in. So if you are dealing with some trauma in your life before you find love, maybe it isn’t time to be searching. But once you found it, don’t give up too quickly on love because life decides to take an unexpected turn. At times, true love deserves a little fight to keep it alive. Subscribe to Filipina Dating Articles |
Fight for Love
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