Filipina Lady Dating

Many feel that online dating is an easy road to finding love. Nothing could be further from the truth. I believe it can be a more successful and rewarding venture, but to say it is easier just isn’t so. Too many guys who are desperate to find love, join an online dating site and throw all common sense out the door. These same guys do not participate in the face to face world of dating, because of their fears and desperation. However, their emotional state of desperate love prevails in the online dating world from their lack of judgment. And when they make a desperate or stupid move, they want to blame the online dating site instead of themselves. The reputation these weak souls give to the online dating world is equivalent to the lady who is out to hustle instead of finding love. Both are desperate in their own way, both are using online dating for the wrong reasons, and both need not to belong to any online dating site.

Fortunately there are male members with healthy egos and emotionally can travel through the variety of online dating partners using good judgment as their vehicle. They take responsibility for their actions, just as they would when meeting a lady face to face. They give the online dating world a good name just like the many ladies who join to find true love.

Yet the online dating world gives you opportunities to meet and find someone you are compatible with because of the vast numbers you can meet along the way. Because of those numbers, you are bound to meet your share of hustlers. There is no doubt, if you could just as easily meet hundreds of ladies in the face to face world, you would also find just as many hustlers, but only in the online dating world is it possible for you to meet ladies from around the world with so many different personality traits. That is why such a road can be more successful, more rewarding, but requires you to use good judgment. Yet, this good judgment only takes the slightest amount of common sense. I guess it is time to give an example to explain.

I knew a guy who saw a lady’s picture on an online dating site, became a member and before he even introduced himself or contacted her, or even said hello to her, sent her a dozen roses. I didn’t feel sorry for him at all when she refused the roses since he was a stranger in her eyes.

I know guys who will contact a lady, her first email to him she will ask him for money and he will send her the money. Come on, any lady who is sincerely looking for love knows this is not appropriate behavior and any guy who falls for it gets what he deserves. Can you imagine going on a face to face date and at dinner the lady says to you “I need $100.00″. You would probably excuse yourself, go to the bathroom and not return. So why get so stupid when you are online.

To be honest with you, I’m more tired of the guys who cry after they have been hustled then the lady hustlers themselves. These guys want to blame the lady, the online dating service, etc, but never stop to examine their lack of judgment or lack of self esteem. However, with that said, there are some true gentleman out there who will try to help a lady if she needs money, but those same gentlemen do not cry afterwards. They chalk it up to experience and accept their lack of judgment knowing that they won’t be fooled next time.

The ultimate hustlers are getting more sophisticated in their hustle. Some are now playing the game longer knowing that the trade mark of a lady hustler is for her to ask for money immediately or early in the relationship. These new breed of online dating hustlers are more selective in who they correspond with and avoid the typical hustler environments. They will establish a legitimate presence through a mail in application (since the stereotype hustler is known to use email and chatrooms) and establish several relationships in search for the ultimate prize. These ladies are out for the bigger score. They are not looking for a lot of men to send money, but that one man who has all the money she would ever want, that one man who will shower her with gifts, that one man she will marry for money because she wants it more then love. Yes, she is the ultimate hustler who will establish a relationship, find the right man with the right dollars and marry him. The sting to the hustle is, she will not stay married to him. She will take his money, wreck his emotions and run off with a guy who sweeps her off her feet. Count yourself lucky if you met the typical hustler who shows her cards early verus the ultimate lady hustler who plays her cards patiently, skillfully and when it comes time to show her cards, she has taken more from you then money, but the love you thought you found. If you are thinking this is nothing new and has been going on even before the online dating world became popular, you obviously have good judgment.




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