Filipina Lady Dating

The online dating world at Christmas time is more about finding love then giving it. Thousands of lonely men search the net in hopes of meeting someone who will be their Mrs Claus. However, if you have not established a relationship with a lady before Christmas and are still searching, it may be best to let the holiday spirit pass before confessing love. I didn’t say to stop communicating and adding to your list the qualities you are looking for, I’m saying, keep your emotions in check until after the holidays.

This is a good time to be writing and getting to know ladies but not a good time to let your heart open to mixed signals during a time a lonely man feels most depressed. Christmas really isn’t Christmas unless you have someone special to buy for, to share Christmas dinner with and be part of someone special in your life. With these emotions so vulnerable, you could easily interrupt these feelings for love. You need to keep your wits about you and let the season be one of getting to know as many ladies as you can and even having a little cyber fun without getting too deep into any emotional involvement.

Those who have met their lady months prior to the holidays and now feel closer to their lady are at a decisive moment of the relationship. It is important you understand the difference. Those who have established a relationship prior to the emotions of the holidays versus those who have not established a relationship, are miles apart in their mind set. The guys who have established a relationship prior to Christmas, got to know their lady well enough to know if the relationship is going to take the next step . Those who are just meeting a lady during the holidays, save your romance until the holidays pass. Get to know her, but don’t let loneliness be your guide to love.

This advise is not something I dreamt up for a blog article. In January I get more emails from guys and gals telling me they meant someone over the holidays but now feel differently then any other month. I get hundreds of letters from ladies in January telling me about the guy who started to write to her in December and now has suddenly stopped. After 3 years of this, I officially call January “the broken heart” month. It’s obvious that just prior to the holidays emotions were being guided by wanting to have that special someone versus actually getting to know the person first. I’ll get emails in December from guys telling me, “Steve I met the lady I’m going to marry a few days ago. She fills the void and emptiness. It has to be love.” Then in January the same gentleman or the lady who he confessed love to, emails me with a broken heart.

Enjoy your holidays, guys. Get to know the ladies. For that matter get to know as many ladies as you want, but take your time. If on Christmas eve you are by yourself, wish the ladies a Merry Christmas and Happy New Year, but keep your emotions in check. Instead, check your list, check it twice and spend some quality time getting to know the ladies before confessing love.

For all you guys who met their lady, got to know her and know she is the one, Filipina Eyes wishes you many happy holidays of love and joy. For the guys who are still searching, know that the lady of your dreams could be spending your next Christmas under your tree.




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