The heat of August is here. It is usually a month where love seems to grow as members settle in from vacation plans and start to think about finding love. Many realize that there is only 3 months left in the year and their hope is that they can start the new year out with that special person in their life. I hope you find that someone.

So what are you searching for? Are your expectations realistic? Are you still looking for that prince charming but missing the one in front of you? Do you set your standards without getting to know the person first? Are you brave enough to take the first step - brave enough to take a chance - brave enough to face rejection if the one you like doesn't return your feelings in kind? You have to be a risk taker to find love.

REJECTION

Without rejection I would of never found love. Without mistakes to redirect my course, I would of kept doing the wrong things over and over and over. Making mistakes or being rejected is part of the course to finding the love of your life. Heck, I was rejected so many times I started to think that love hated me. But it turned out that those rejections, no matter how many, was getting me closer and closer to true love.

WHEN

I keep thinking that any day now my developer is going to announce the update to the dating script. I'm starting to lose faith he is going to get it done this year. As much as I regret the thought of making all the changes, I'm also anxious to update the site with new features.

When it comes time to do the update, I usually work on Asian Wife first. Why? Asian wife coding is kind of in-between Filipina Eyes and Filipina Lady coding so it is a good medium to update first to see how things go .

DON'T GIVE UP

You are probably tired of hearing this mantra, but your other option is to give up and never find love. Of course, you could try search elsewhere. Actually, when I was searching for love, I kept my eyes and ears open for any opportunity to find love. However, my online presence seem to be paying off for several reasons so I kept at it. Don't give up your search for love. If not today, tomorrow, or next month, love will eventually find you.

Good Luck