The heat index in Florida is overwhelming. For that matter, there seems to be a heat wave all throughout the states. People have died from the extreme heat.

Speaking of hot, we have been getting our share of new lady members that are looking for the right man. When I check my emails/messages in the morning the number one question from ladies is "were can I find a true man?" I'm not sure if "true" is referencing a man who is sincere about love or if there is another meaning attached to it. I know the increase in lady complaints about men asking for inappropriate favors are on the rise. When proven, I will take the appropriate actions and possibly delete their account.

MONEY or JOB SCAM

If another member asks for money or promises a job, chances are they are not being honest about their feelings. If they are sincere about finding love, money and job is not part of the agenda. I have written several times on this topic so please think twice before accommodating someone's request for money and be careful if someone offers you a job. In both cases, they are probably looking out for themselves, not you.

If you would like to read more about Scammers, click SCAM LINK.

COMMON SENSE

Common sense may mean different things to different people, but I highly encourage lady and male members to talk to some of the older members on the site if they feel that another member is being less than honest with you. I try my best to accommodate everyone's questions but at times I feel at a lost if a member has a personal question. I'm far from an expert, but I do know that common sense can go a long way in deciding what is best. The problem is, a lot of members let their heart get in the way of their thinking and make the wrong decision. Again, ask another member if you want to discuss a situation. One thing I can say for sure, STOP, and take you time. Don't rush. When you rush a decision without giving it proper time, that is when you make the wrong decision or a mistake you will regret.

Good luck to all in their search for love!